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What is The real Meaning Of Maturity?

by on Mar.20, 2010, under International Issues

Have you ever known that most of us still didn’t know what the maturity is? In this era, we can still see so many kinds of immaturity. The immature have excuse for everything. Like egoistic, cheated our partners, dishonest, avoid when we made mistakes, selfish, chronically tardy, the no-shows, procrastinator, and so on. To know what a mature person is, we can’t judged only by how old the person is. It is not a shocking views if we still saw an adult person shows their immaturity. There are some ways to define what the real meaning of maturity is. A person may be chronologically and intellectually mature, but emotionally immature. Ann Lander, by her own words, made some definitions of maturity, one of the definitions, maturity is the ability to control anger and settle differences without violations or destructions. And according to me, maturity is a person who have attitude, able to lead like a great leader supposed to be, and shows their responsibility no matter how old they are. They should behave unselfishness, and always try to responding to the needs of other.

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To describing a mature person, we must pay attention on that person’s behavior. To be mature means to act spontaneously in occasions or situations, free from preconceived notions and the compulsion to be perfect or correct. Maturity can be seen by the way they face a problem and think what they’ve supposed to do to solve their problem. It is seems easy to become a mature person, as the matter of fact, it is not easy at all. We need some patience, willingness, and courage to become a mature person. For example, when we were elected to lead an organization, and we made a mistake, as a good leader, we must confess it, we must able to say, “I’ve made a mistake” and also able to say “I am sorry” and then try to figure out the best way to solve the problem that have just made. Beside that, throw out our selfishness in order to responding or to share with the needs of other is another meaning of maturity. For instance, in our family, we ask to our parents that we want to buy something that very crucial, especially for our study in university, but in the same time, our little sister ask for school. In this condition, as a mature brother or sister, we will wholeheartedly to give way for our sister’s best first.

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Although a person is an adult, it’s no guarantee that she/he is mature enough. Being a mature person is not as simple as we though. We must have a very strong willingness, patience, and courage. Beside that, we also must have integrity, and for you see to be mature does not necessarily mean just to be a fully grown individual. But, as long as there is a will, so there will a way. Being mature won’t so loss at all, on the other hand, it’s so good to be mature, especially in younger age. There will be so many benefits if we become a mature person, we wouldn’t scared to face the future. And also we will become a better person.


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